Jealous for Me

*Warning: complete vulnerability ahead…

“He is jealous for me,

Loves like a hurricane, I am a tree,

Bending beneath the weight of his wind and mercy.

When all of a sudden, I am unaware of these afflictions, eclipsed by glory,

And I realise just how beautiful You are,
And how great Your affections are for me. “
-David Crowder Band
Yesterday was a lonely day. A place or state I am keenly familiar with. A season that seems to present itself often. Sometimes circumstances dictate it and other times, it just seems to be. But God brought a beautiful realization out of it. As I was getting ready for the day, asking God why this thorn seems to be in my side, He whispered these things to me and it was the sweetest gift. I was questioning but in His grace, He tenderly gave me an answer I did not deserve. I heard Him say to me in the depths of my soul:
“It is the state of loneliness that I used to draw you to me when you were young. If it were not for loneliness, you would have found too much meaning and belonging in people. You would not have seen your desperate need for me and so, I drove you to me.”
My Father, Lord, Maker, Redeemer, Defender, Protector and yes, even my BEST FRIEND. He stoops low to be a best friend! Mercy, assurance, grace, LOVE. It was as though God gave me another piece of a rather “undramatic” testimony as well, showing me how He was working even when I was not always aware. Gently drawing a child bathed in the word of God from the beginning of life.
Would I see this thing called loneliness as a gift. A merciful gift from God. Would I stop fighting His plan and when this place or season comes, would I remember how God has used it for good in my life and praise Him for loneliness! Many men have had to suffer much more than this and made it up the mountain to their maker. Tired yes, but they have endured and have not wavered.
As A.W. Tozer wrote about the lonely Christian: “It is this very loneliness that throws him back upon God. His inability to find human companionship drives him to seek in God what he can find nowhere else.”
Amen, Tozer. Amen!:)

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8 Responses to Jealous for Me

  1. Grace says:

    Glad you have found peace. Love you and hope you're having a better day. Beautiful pictures of your Ellie.

  2. Melissa Marini says:

    Love all the pictures of Ellie.

  3. Anonymous says:

    Any parent would give just about anything to remove pain from their child's life….But, as a Christian, you have glimmers of what God is doing through it, and it comforts you as you seek to comfort your child! Thanks for this little window into your soul…Mom

  4. kate says:

    It appears that I seem to suffer from bouts of depression myself. I never thought I did until after babies. I cant exactly tell you why but can any of us? It is lonely and I am so thankful for your words. Just to remember how God uses all things for good and how you were brought to him through this challenge. I love you and pray for you and really hope to come and see you sometime.

  5. meg says:

    It is so refreshing to hear such honesty! My loneliness was very pronounced when I was younger also, and God comforted me with the same truth…that if I had the level of companionship I often wished for, that I would not have been drawn to Him. That is still true for me today, and in different ways – caring for children alone all day, and giving all of yourself for three little needy people, is a lonely venture! But God has used this season of life to draw me closer to Him. I pray that as my kids get older and more self-sufficient, that I would still continue to strive to keep Him first.

  6. Paul Rose says:

    Ellie is so cute, going to be another ballerina. :)

  7. Melissa says:

    Wow Susanna, your last post spoke to me more than you can imagine. I’ve followed your blog for a while but I think this is the first I’ve commented. I so well understand your feelings of loneliness that sometime seem to be there for no real reason. I have not been a religious person most of my life, but the past 10 or so years have found me in depths of depression that I didn’t think I could climb out of. I’ve started to wonder if it has been God’s way of saying “You need me. You can’t do this on your own. I need to make you realize this, painful as it may be in the process.” Now I think about God constantly and talk to him all through the day. I’m 38 (never been married, no kids) and I’m finally realizing the truth of God.

    Sorry for rambling on here. You spoke to me so much in that post! I love your blog! Through writing about your tough times, you are encouraging others of us. Thank you!

    Melissa Mease in Ohio

  8. Carrie Taaca says:

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    Carrie Taaca
    Outreach Coordinator for Higher Level Group

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    Turning a Negative into a Positive
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